tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1782448908857396263.post6704948035914454160..comments2023-08-16T18:07:26.422+08:00Comments on NON.STOP.BABBLE: It's Been 2 WeeksPatty B.http://www.blogger.com/profile/17874025939288521718noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1782448908857396263.post-20053211543922826872012-06-04T08:27:23.723+08:002012-06-04T08:27:23.723+08:00So sorry for your loss and thank you for your kind...So sorry for your loss and thank you for your kind words.Patty B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17874025939288521718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1782448908857396263.post-38144055219234046702012-06-04T02:43:57.734+08:002012-06-04T02:43:57.734+08:00Hi there! I just stumbled upon your blog and can&#...Hi there! I just stumbled upon your blog and can't help at all but comment ;)<br /><br />I also lost my father November of 2011. If there's a way I would scrap off my memory that fateful 9am of November 21. My mother was surprised why he wasnt awake since my dad would be up at 7am the most. <br /><br />She found him slumped and wouldn't respond to any of our calls, shouts.<br /> I watched him as doctors resuscitate, intubate and other familiar scenes which I only get to watch in Greys Anatomy. I know he's GONE but how this happened when I just talked to him 2am of the same morning?! How how how???<br /> <br />My father was never hospitalized. Each one of us in the family has our fair share of hospitalization but dad wasn't. In fact, between my mother & father it's my mom who I always fear the most. Mom would always go to the doctor whenever he would feel something but nothing major ailment though. <br />Dad would always tell other people 'pag namatay ako, yung matutulog Lang tapos Hindi na magigising ayoko yung tutusukin pa ako' and clearly that exactly happened. <br /><br />Days/weeks after his passing, I was in a roller coaster of emotion. I thought I was ok, next thing I find my tears rolling uncontrollably. I would always pray that this is just a nightmare & I hope God wakes me up from this misery. Clearly, it's not. <br /><br />I always tell other people, I hope my dad just got sick (even a minor one at that!) so at least we know and we could somehow given him MORE love, more time and MORE of everything. I was asking GOD "why didnt you give us few hours before taking him so we could probably hug, say sorry and so he could feel our love even for one last time"? Until now I still don't understand why, but I know God has His reasons so I trust Him, someday I will. <br /><br />Amongst all kinds of death, when a person left without no goodbyes, no warnings is the very hard to deal with and accept. Clearly it is, and I never thought it would happen to us. <br /><br />May God comfort you in this painful moment in your lives. <br /><br />God Bless you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com